They are struggling with a life crisis that has pushed them into a different state of being. That, to me, is what the quote is all about. But, when you are in a relationship with someone you truly love, you value that person enough to see things from their perspective. Have we spoken 1-on-1 yet? Couples and relationships will never be perfect. The crux of the discussion went something like this: One of the girls has been dating a guy for a while, but now all they ever do is fight. And every person is keenly aware of his or her flaws and failures. True love is something to aspire to, not to automatically have.
I feel the caress of cold sand between my toes as I watch the sun appear to set into the pacific ocean. Loving someone has this sort of connection that you will help him carry his loads in life. So, this is how to accept your husband's flaws and embrace your imperfect relationship. This approach also applies in the bedroom; sexual dynamics are often improved with increased trust and mutual confidence between partners. Keep practicing tuning out those negative voices. That's why OlympusIs still around. All you can do in such a situation is to allow them to be themselves and be the best person you can be.
What can you live with? We are flawed people looking for someone whose flaws match well with ours. She is mischief but then she is the warmth of home. You've probably seen extreme examples of this with people who have a severe disability or have had a very public embarrassment but are living with joy and self-confidence. Put on rose-colored glasses and create a self-fulfilling prophecy. True Love by this definition is flawless. Any problems you have that you feel are stopping you from becoming what you want to become should be seen as obstacles rather than barriers.
Annabeth: I mean, the West represents a lot of the best things mankind ever did--that's why the fire is still burning. Start afresh and embrace what you have. What negative thoughts do you have about your flaws and past failures? Or are there some short-coming that should never get a pass? For sympathizing with my overly sensitive nature. You ultimately crave this acceptance in order to feel validated and worthy. When you are thinking more about yourself and your needs and pleasure than someone else, you are not in a state of true love and you will do ridiculous things with a lack of seriousness and respect for the other person. I had never known that someone could read me from cover to cover in a matter of seconds until you never asked for a justification.
Any one of us reading that list above can find something they relate to, some flaw or failure they recognize as their own. Are they experiencing true love or are the experience infatuation, lust, or even wishful thinking? It was during that brief period when I realized how much I truly cared for this person, and how I didn't want to go through life without him by my side. For instance, we had contrasting views on marriage and children. This hormone is released during cuddling and sex and it helps to give you the feeling of attachment to someone else. Toilet paper feeding over the top or under, can you live with their preference? In order to move past this though and to work your flaws in your favour, you need to be able to look at them as strengths, or at least as part of the tapestry that makes you who you are. Every person has mental, physical, or emotional imperfections.
You become addicted to the approval and good feelings that come from making people happy and comfortable, as you tend to their needs over your own. You Are Willing To Stay During The Tough Times © Your partner gets sick, physically or mentally. However, these particular individuals made it their goal to inform the entire train of their conversation, which therefore made it challenging for me and everyone else to ignore them. With belief, trust, confidence I know I can succeed. That action is a red flag since it is a breach of trust.
One can easily become judgemental, and these perceived flaws obstruct even the right ways. If you cannot deal with your partner's human errors, should you break up? In fact, this person will still suck. It wasn't until we spent time apart when I discovered the significant role my boyfriend played in my life. Flyover fingers untrained in the intricate, dangerous work of 'solving Amy'. When my stop finally arrived, I was beyond relieved when the double doors opened and I could swiftly make my exit. They no longer need to react from old paradigms, but can problem-solve creatively.
And, they will treat you with the same level of respect. Sure, fix and strengthen and better yourself, but quit blaming. If their flaws are numerous and petty, perhaps you two shouldn't be together if so many things bother you. For instance, you can see their true intentions, instead of labeling what you think their intentions are. You Are Kind © When you feel true love with someone, you are considerate, generous, and friendly with them. In what is known as the Pygmalion effect— the greater the expectation placed upon people, the better they perform.