We have issues sexually in our marriage of 9 years. I have lost all interest in sex, while my partner still has a healthy libido. I am a latent bisexual who does not really care for guys, I really and truly love women. A deeply passionate, arousing and satisfying night. Recently we had a fight because I found out she was talking to a guy who I knew wanted her to leave me. A lot of the other men we've met online on Fetlife, if you've heard of it , but also just guys we've met in person. We have had people watching us too, but never actually getting directly involved.
After that relationship I was dating someone else and went on a weekend getaway with a female friend of ours. Maybe it is a realization of the power women yield with their sex. If you had brought the man to the table without consulting your partner then this would be different, however the fact he is encouraging it was his choice. It will forever be a part of your relationship whether you want it to or not. And how do either of those promote trust or intimacy in a marriage? You will have lots to talk about when you are making love to your husband alone.
Sadly, you are going to have to wait until the child is born to do any paternity tests. Some guys she met multiple times, others were only one time. Within hours, I matched with a few guys. Perhaps try having him watch you kissing each other and performing oral sex, if he is ok with it then continue, however if he is not, get him to say something the moment he feels uncomfortable with anything, just make sure that the other guy agrees to this too. If you can, explain why you feel this way. Before the first night I saw my 3 year old boyfriend with another girl, I was planning to dump him afterwards, so that gave me the courage to just let go and go for it. My husband of eight years confessed to wanting to watch me with another man.
I got really upset that she had been decieving me and long story short, the whole thing was amended and she started talking to other guys. It would be different if you were going from having sex without voyeurs and without having watched someone else having sex but as you say, you have already experimented more so than many other couples do. I asked if he wanted me to set it up. But ever since, he has been talking a lot about how good it would be if I had sex with somebody else - another male. His idea is that he would really love to be an 'onlooker' while some other man had sex with me.
I seeing her get satisfied by other guys and even more so, it makes our sex so much better when she comes home after. My prayers are with this woman, and her husband. If one of the two men had sex with you around the same day of ovulation, then the probability is that he is the baby's father. Q Unfortunately, while my husband was away on business I had a 'one night stand' with a young man who is around 17 years old. My husband and I discussed it a few years ago and I was actually considering it.
Have you heard of this type of thing before? And she's usually okay with that. All of them were bang on point. If you would like to hear about this series when it is available, write us at and ask to be put on that mailing list. I like guys who are in great shape, but not too bulked up. Be the example of what it means to be a loving spouse, to be a trustworthy wife, to be a holy Christian. I have very old-fashioned values when it comes to marriage - I believe the people ought to love each other and be committed to one another only in a marriage. Yes, we are, and we still occasionally have sex together just the two of us.
Again I told her over and over how much I loved her for what she doing. The first time you may not like if or freak out and you just may not want to be that exposed to your partner. We were carful and we selected a friend of ours who was married. I've always been a little curios about having another woman but never followed through. If you've done it 3 times, he is enjoying the intensity and wanting more. If he gets to join in at the end then this will take away some of the jealousy of someone else having sex with his wife. Did he have any particular men in mind? We hit it off immediately and planned to catch up on drinks in a couple of hours.
I am a Christian, he is not. We don't cheat but every once in a while we will have a treat. My wife was and is hot. But be careful, if you ask one of your friends about this and they take it the wrong way you being curious, and them being either really into you or really against you they might make a move on you, or start spreading rumors or something like that. Either way, you should discuss terms and expectations with him. But he loved every minute of it — he loved it a little too much.
If he loves and respects you that will be the last of the conversation. While I was showering he came in the bathroom and grabbed me, very violently and cried, telling me he didn't want to do that. At the time my best friend revealed to me that she had a crush on me. Would he be asking you to do anything else that might make you uncomfortable? It depends on the situation, but usually my husband just watches and masturbates. But that is not something I would really recommend, because men are often bruised and sore for several days after taking that operation. Assuming it's just libido, I'd encourage you to talk about all this openly and see if you can't find a middle ground that incorporates a more comfortable sexual arrangement that doesn't leave your partner frustrated and you dreading 'sex night.